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Bossy’s Excellent Road Trip. 2008.

When Bossy began this blog back in 1966 she knew it would garner rave reviews and facilitate one entire haircut last year, but she never knew she would become a devotee of an enormous blog family. A family who supports one another in times of Emergencies. A family who celebrates each other’s triumphs. A family who throws whiskey bottles at each other’s windshields after Aunt Ida’s wedding. A family.

Bossy met many of you last year, and it was magic—wine-soaked magic. But it wasn’t enough. Because Bossy has a hankering to visit her bloggy family in their Natural Habitats. We’re talking a road trip: Bossy’s Excellent Road Trip of the continental United States. Spring/summer ’08.

Here’s how it works: if you want to be a stop on the road trip, email Bossy. In that email be sure to provide your name and blog name if you have one—along with your address. You may also want to mention if you have a sofa for Bossy to crash on, or if you’re just interested in meeting for a quick bowling match

In return Bossy will plant your name on her Road Trip link farm and email you a friendly little badge to stick on your blog.

You will also receive access to the Excellent Road Trip map so you can track other bloggy stops demarked by push pin technology:

Participation and money money money other logistics will determine Bossy’s route—obviously she can’t drive through every town. The goal is to select centralized locations.

You may wonder how Bossy is going to fund her adventure. So does Bossy’s husband. That’s why they invented the Excellent Road Trip Donation Jar, and when Bossy says “they” she means herself:

Because readers reader?

dominoes

To recap: email, address, map, blog button, donation jar— Bossy has produced this movie to help explain.

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  3. You know you’ve always got a place to stay with PunditMom. And I can do better than a couch — I’ve got a guest room with a bed AND it’s own bathroom, as long as you don’t mind that it doubles as my office! :O

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  7. I love Road Trips!!! Sign me up! (will have to contribute to the Gas $$ jar after this pay period – the Christmas hemmorrage is still seeping a bit) Bossy is alwyas welcome at the home of the Tapdancer!

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  13. OMG, you SO have to come to my house.

    We have a guest suite, but it currently has a gal living in it…who knows by Spring/Summer….but you can always have a couch (or blow up bed…..)..

    I live in S. CA, in a GREAT locale…..

    1. 20 minutes north is Disneyland and that whole shebang

    2. one hour south is downtown San Diego

    3. I live a few miles from the beach, Mission San Juan Capistrano….

    4. If you watch the crazy “The Real Housewives of the OC” or “Laguna Beach”…well, I can give you a walking tour of all their *hot spots*

    So, put me on your map!

    Ladera Ranch, CA

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  16. Hey if you start this month you can hook up with ALL the FABULOUS Texas Bloggers who are convening in Houston on Jan 12(which sounds so official but the truth is we’re partying it up Tex Mex style).

    If not, stop by here on the way to Prof J’s (very convenient, that).

    You’ve really got to have a Texas stop, but I suggest you hit it before May. Seriously.

    Unless Bossy likes roasting in H-E-double toothpicks.

    I’ve got a couch and two futons. You can have the pink room or the multi color pastel room.

    Since I’m competing with CA (and the rest of the US):

    1. We have OIL SOAKED beaches.

    2. We have an industrial region that will set your photography equipment ON FIRE (creatively)

    3. We have food that will do the same ON FIRE thing for your mouth (in a good way)

    4. Nobody knows fun like Texans

    5. And culture. You will not be able to choose among the fabulous culture here (and I so serious).

    6. And music. Music here is HOT, like cool hot not like hot with heat.

    7. Friendly. You want friends and family? Come to Houston. You’ll leave with a passel. And maybe a tattoo.

    8. Space. You can have the space experience without even leaving the earth. Just tour the NASA museum.

    9. Speaking of museums. Science. Kids. Art.

    10. Did I mention the oil soaked beaches?

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  17. My email attempt failed.
    Bossy. Orlando. The Sunshine State, Warm sun,blue skies.
    We could have a meet and greet in the middle of the state.
    And you wouldn’t have to sleep on the sofa. I have extra REAL BEDS.
    Hubby said “Whatever” He thinks us bloggies are a little off our rocker (or meds?) But he’s a go-with-the crazy-flow kind of guy.
    Stella has to stay home. I have a psycho Maine Coon Cat (off his meds?)
    My boss (who is definately not a Bossy) wants 4 weeks notice for time-off requests.

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  18. OH BOSSY -GENIUS!

    Hubs is interviewing ALL OVER the map. Don’t know where we will be living by March!

    As soon as I know where we will be -I’m fillin’ that tip jar baby! I gots ta meet mah BOSSY!

    Also- Nominated you for Best Humor Blog for the 2008 Bloggies. I have a link up at my site. I nominated myself for best new blog- I’m shameless like that yo!

    Stalkers Untie! 😉

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  19. Holy cow, Bossy!! I don’t have a blog and I’m in a small hellhole of a town in TX…although I do have a comfy couch.

    BUT!! I can tell you one stop you won’t want to miss and that’s one listed already for heartshapedhedges. I personally have been there and besides being in paradise along the South Orange County Coastline, you can also observe upclose the infamous “crapmobile”….yep, that’s what it’s called.

    Besides that she has more bathrooms than the Nixon Library…not that you will be visiting that landmark.

    Oh, and I hope you don’t forget to bring Stella on your roadtrip….

    Happy truckin!!

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  21. that idea is genius! leave it up to bossy to come up with the good ones.
    but –
    i’m not entertaining enough, social enough, funny enough or pleasant enough for you to want to hang out with. plus, i have a baby. who cries and WAKES UP EARLY. bossy wouldn’t like that.
    lol
    i can’t wait to hear about your adventures!

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  23. I think I would be too nervous and have to go on pills if someone as awesome as Bossy was in my house. I’ll have to be content with blog-life as usual. But I’ll spot Bossy some gas money.

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  25. Bossy – all I can say is Vegas baby! And we have culture – no place else has as many crap tables in assorted colors, and slot machines that make pretty noises and flashing pictures as they eat your money.
    But the driving, if you do come to Vegas you better learn to drive that fast. Except our roads are straight, without all that confusing green stuff on the sides. And the traffic lights? Looking at them is optional (according to the way most people drive)

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  26. You are the coolest. Another small town (Illinois) girl who probably wouldn’t make the cut, but I can’t wait to read all about your terrific travels! Now I have even more reason to look forward to this spring/summer!

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  29. I see that you already have a marker in AZ. Does that mean what I think it does?!?!?! I’ll start a blog if I need to, but you’re not going on a roadtrip without hanging at my house.

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  30. Well, one would think that BOSSY would have to come to NYC – because after all, it’s a TRAIN RIDE away from PHIHLADELPHIA and besides BOSSY’S SON is going to be living in NYC soon – so – how about a BOSSY WINE HOUR in NYC in SEPTEMBER, or whenever college begins?

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  31. This sounds like SO much fun! I hope the Pioneer Woman’s ranch is going to be a destination because I want to see you in her livestock photos.

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  32. The Pacific Northwest has a lot of cool bloggers. Come to Seattle and you can kill a lot of birds with one stone. I have a huge house and a blender-the perfect spot for a raucous bloggy slumber party. Derfwad Manor welcomes Bossy and Bossallinni.

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  34. new york city is so boooooring, but we could show you around your son’s future school if you like- i work there. can’t wait to read about it!

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  35. Reasons to visit Manic Mommy:
    – I’m a new england mama (no caps) but if you visit the New England Mamas, I would LOVE to meet you (all) for a drink.
    – I don’t have a guestroom but I’ll move HRH out of his room for you – if you don’t mind primary colored cars and trucks decor and Spongebob sheets (even clean!)
    – Excellent water pressure for showering off road dirt.
    – Close to one of your college tour hotspots!

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  36. Want to come be Bossy in Laguna Beach, CA? The Mtv show was fake but the wine is real!

    We have a lovely guest room and it comes with Guitar Hero – I know, now you can’t wait.

    I am a new stalker to your blog… but I am emailing.

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  37. How ’bout a visit to The Biggest Little City in the World? Reno needs Bossy! Plus, Reno is the next westbound stop after Salt Lake City, where I’m sure Bossy will be staying with Dooce, right?

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  39. I’ve emailed you, Bossy.

    I’m about an hour outside of San Fransisco…if you’re going to BlogHer we could car pool into the city together. How COOL would I be, arriving with BOSSY?!?!

    It’s a drag we’re out of our big gorgeous house and in this modest one as our guest suite days are over, but I can boot my daughter from her room…her bed is quite snuggly.

    And I will have lots of good wine.

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  41. Here’s another requst for you to come to south Orange County. I live in Huntington Beach and I think we folks from the OC could meet up and drink copius amounts of wine and show Bossy what so Cal has to offer. I know my way around Hollywood and Beverly Hills as well as the beaches of OC.

    If you think you can make it to our neck of the woods let me know so I can start planning….

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  43. OMG – Bossy invading Chicago? Where the people from Iowa and small town Illinois and even Michigan could meet?! If only it were in the fall … I still am in search of a flower girl. Alas, summertime it is. I’ll have to make due. Email sent, you let me know your dates and I’ll schedule my east coast vacation around them! 🙂

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  44. Oddly enough, I uploaded a video to YouTube this morning and it automatically fast-forwarded my actions … but, not my voice.

    small village near Madison, Wisconsin … my couch, your arse.

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  46. I so heart you Bossy, because you make me laugh, mostly out loud. I also heart you from far far away in a distant land called Canada. Maybe there will be an Excellent International Road Trip in 2009?

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  47. So, let’s see if I’ve got this straight – Bossy is stalking Elmo Cupasoup and wants her readers to finance the trip and provide a hideout?

    I’m in.

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  49. Happy! Happy! Joy! Joy!! I do technically have a blog (just no content or traffic), and I’m conveniently located about halfway between DC and Atlanta off I-85, and I live in the same town as a real blogger [ http://www.mojomom.com/blog/index.htm ]. I don’t have any of the fun vices, but I can cook an AWESOME meal or two, and my girls know how to turn our two oversize couches face to face to create a “sleepover pen” full of warm blankets and stuffed animals. What am I doing “posting”?!?!!! I need to compose my email right away!

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  52. Bossy, I have both gin AND a catbowl from which to sip, er, gulp it. I am in the suburbs of DC – Montgomery County MD. Must one have a blog in order to be considered? Because I”ll start one if I hafta. Will email…

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  54. Bossy is a genius! You are making blogging HISTORY.

    I’m new to blogging and a relatively new reader of Bossy, but if you decide to come down to Dixieland my guest room is always open! I’m between Atlanta & Nashville, Birmingham is also on the route. As long as you don’t mind Hotwheels…

    What a truly cool idea!

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  58. If I knew you wanted more than to have your patience tested by 4 kids or be bored out of your skull by the mundaneness of my stay-at-home life (unless, of course you are DYING to do laundry and mop floors and scrape boogers off walls), then I’d say, “SURE, come see me!” Somehow, I don’t think that fits in with your use of the adjective “EXCELLENT”. I am in the D.C. Metro area though so you could always just come for the politics.

    Can’t wait to read all about this!

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  59. You’re a genius, Bossy. What fun. I wish I had a blog, so you could come stay with me in MA. But you already came to Amherst on your college tripping…but if you do come to my area, I’d meet you for a beer.

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  60. Dear Louise: (Bossy)

    You MUST come to the burbs of Detroit, pick me up and I guarantee we would indeed make it to Mormon town to stalk … errr, I mean visit your favorite blogger!

    Oh the places you’ll go ….

    *smiles*

    Thelma (Nancy)

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  61. This is AWESOME!
    Unfortunately, I don’t have a couch to offer, but would love to meet up for wine or coffee if you happen to pass through Sacramento or the greater Sacramento area.

    Would your west coast arrival happen to coincide with BlogHer ’08 in San Francisco?

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  63. So if you decide to take the whole “Head West, Young Blogger” philosophy to its U.S. extreme, we’ve got a futon and a mai tai with your name on it here in Honolulu. Come have some aloha — you know you want to.

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  66. I sent you an email also, but the highlights are: great locale (San Diego; make it a coast-to-coast trip), excellent cocktails with amazing women, mouth-watering Mexican food, and a gal that shares your passion for John Cusack and blogging. Mi Casa Es Su Casa.

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  69. I’m in east central MS, a couple of miles from the interstate (59 and 20) if you are driving through this way. I have a couch you are welcome to. I might have a spare bedroom, depending on whether or not my daughter really moves out. (Don’t hold your breath.)

    And I have a convertible and a case of wanderlust if you need a Thelma to your Louise. 😛 I’ve been dying for a real roadtrip and nobody will go with me!!!!! I want to drive from Mississippi to the Grand Canyon and back. (If anyone wants to offer me a place to stay along the way, email me. LOL)

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  70. Fer chrissake, I will be emailing you with a list of reasons why you NEED to make a stop at my place.

    The first of which will be an opportunity for you to say “Fer chrissake” and “Jaysus Christ” as much as your heart desires.

    The second, and maybe more importantly, I’ll have a brand new baby with NEW BABY SMELL and I’ll let you sniff her head all you want.

    Convinced?

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  72. Indy in May is THE place to be. Stop by and we’ll sun ourselves at the track during qualifications or a practice day.

    I have a couch or we could fumigate the teen boy’s room for you.

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  73. I am quite convinced that by keeping to the Continental US only you are damaging US/Canada relations. Why do we get no Bossy? If you do sojourn over the border, I’ll not only put cash in your tip jar, I’ll see to it that you have a bed of your own, the heat turned up on the pool and some deadly ice wines. We go hard up here… maybe Bossy is worried she can’t keep up. Otherwise, may I suggest a BossyStock? All of Bossy’s readers could meet up in the small town of Bossy’s choosing and have a giant parlour game-bowling championship. I’m all in.

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  74. Ok I emailed you but I want to say come to the real Texas. Working cowboys in chaps on horses,oil wells,cotton fields,great barbecue and TexMex food,ranch rodeos, insanely entertaining accents to listen to, great music,beautiful bluebonnets if you get here before the middle of June. If you come in late June/July/August it is insanely hot but it is a dry heat in north Texas not like muggy Houston, Austin, San Antonio or even Dallas. Where I live would be a nice stop between say Dallas and Albuquerque.

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  75. Ohhh, team Brando/TLB would love love love to have you, but we are most decidedly NOT in a centralized location. Still, if you find yourself in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, we have an excellent well-stocked Queen guest room that is all yours as long as you want it.

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  76. Come see the Alamo. You’ll be the hottest ticket in town. Even hotter’n Hannah Montanah, I’m thinking. We’ll serve you a big old helping of hospitality, and some fried gizzards.

    Yeeeeeee Hawwwww, Bossy girl. Giddyup on to San Antonio, puh-leeeze!!!

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  77. Brilliant! This is brilliant! I would be honored to be in your presence.

    You have such amazing children I often wonder what you did/do/are doing as a mother. Mine are so young… I often find myself saying “What would Bossy do?”

    BTW… Cleveland rocks and we have a guest room complete with it’s own bathroom. Not to mention wine. Lots. Of. It.

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  81. Just an idea for a fund-raiser. If there is an internet equivalent of a bake sale, you can totally put me down for a pie.

    Hope your tip jar is over-flowing in no time!

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  82. Nash-ville! Nash-ville! Nash-ville! You are my Dooce. Don’t make me send you a picture of my toddler with a pillbox on his head.

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  83. Excellent idea–have fun with it!

    I suggest a copy of Road Trip USA. We’re on a month+ long cross country wander right now, and have gotten great ideas for off the beaten path stops.

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  84. Awesome idea! I could be stop number one, please oh please! Since I am like an hour from you, tops. You don’t have to stay and deal with the crazy kids and annoying dog, just breeze through on your way to more exciting places.

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  85. Dear Miss Bossy,
    Saint Louis is really in MICHIGAN, we could use this place as a meeting spot…have a deep fried turkey or two, then The upper pennisulas can be “trolls” (us UNDER The Mackinaw Bridge), the Big tire group can come up!!
    YAH sounds like a PLAN!!!

    Email sent to you

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  86. Wahhhhhhhhhhh! CONTINENTAL U.S. ONLY??? For a few hundred measly dollars (okay, well, between $500-700 maybe) I CAN FIND YOU A R/T TICKET TO HAWAI`I from the East Coast!!! You can’t afford NOT to come, can you? I have a delightful eggplant-colored sofa and my husband makes the best, best, best pina coladas EVER, with fresh pineapple grown in MY OWN TOWN, and you are so welcome. If you feel the need for a little sunshine, y’all come, any ole time, okay? I AM SERIOUS, at least about THIS. And if not this year, maybe for your International-Intercontinental Tour ’09!

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  87. I’m there, dude….all I need is push pin, right? Right? I guess I just need a most excellent push pin and then it’s all good.

    (All meant to be read like Keanu Reeves, circa, I don’t know, 1994ish.)

    Seriously, Bossy. I’ll roadtrip with you any day. You just tell me what to do.

    I’ll bring the milk glass lamp.

    It’ll be AWESOME.

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  90. Pick AG! Pick AG. Except we can do lunch and you can go south or north to the next folks. You know where AG lives, well not KNOW, but you know we share a certain corner of the world together and you can come over any time!

    AG has a couch.
    No husband or screaming children.
    And lots and lots of booze!!

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  91. You are BRAVE! I myself love hiding behind the computer screen. Maybe one day I’ll venture out to Blogher — but no roadtrips! Can’t wait to read all about it, though. Of course, if you’re ever in TO, though, you’re more than welcome to crash here. 🙂

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  95. Okay Okay… I have to say this. I am #95 of your thousands and thousands of fans that will leave a comment on this post. I found your blog 2 weeks after starting my own blog in August of 2007. I have been a fan ever since. A true fan. Your blog is the first that I read on a daily basis (maybe a little white lie on that, but who doesn’t have little white lies every know and again?) You have left only one comment on my blog and I have cherished that comment ever since 😉

    If you so happen to be on the 210 fwy, Exit Haven Avenue. Alta Loma, California. I will gladly open my home for you. We have a new travel trailer with it’s own bath room and kitchen on the side of the house patiently waiting for a guest. 😉 DO CALL.

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  97. You’re just trying to upstage the Presidential campaign wagon aren’t you.

    I hope you’ll be travelling in a vehicle with some big I am bossy slogan slandered down either side.

    And that a merchandise line has been considered.

    Badges BOSSY, badges.

    While technically we are not even on the same continent, you are more than welcome to swing by our place anytime. Spare bedroom (albeit upstairs with my mother) and only metres from a beach AND a lake. Just the 18+hr flight that’d be the killer.

    Badges.
    I’m telling you.
    Badges.

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  98. Bossy-if I am not mistaken, that was the Blue Route and Chalfont is not too far from the Blue Route. You can either stop when you first embark or on your way home. There’s always wine around here!

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  99. dude
    need yr email…BUT..PLEASE come to Columbus, Ohio. I am centrally located between a starbucks and a fancy wine shop/bar…

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  100. If you drive straight ahead towards the West side of the US, up to the end where the westest of the US west stops, and continue on driving through the ocean…I’ll be waiting here in bright, sunny Australia. Then I can drag you to eat kangaroo meat, wrestle koala and maybe race the Tasmanian devil.

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  102. Wow! I can’t wait to see how this pans out. I think I’m as skeptical as your husband. Maybe he and I have been on one too many road trips! If you’re passing through Central Louisiana, you’re more than welcome to our homestead (aka the ghetto trailer). We’re just po’ friendly country folk here, but we’ll make ya’ll welcome! 🙂

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  103. Ditto on the votes for Orange County, CA. I won’t promise the Real Housewives of Orange County stuff, cuz that’s not my thing (and the others have that covered). But you can paddle out and attempt to surf wi’ me.

    I figure if you’re actually a serial killer you will have completed most of your spree on the way out and the cops will be on to you by the time you hit southern California. So…count me in!

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  104. Bossy girl, I don’t think you have been offered a guest suite in Atlanta. I’ll cook you up a pot of greens. I’m right intown, near Emory University.

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  105. Looks like Bossy’s got some other SoCal friends, so throw me into the mix, too! I live about 30 minutes north of downtown LA, 20 minutes north of Hollywood, and 10 minutes away from Six Flags Magic Mountain. We have a guest room just waiting for Bossy.

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  106. Northern VT is such a great place.. and then you could make it an international trip, cause I can take you to Canada for lunch! Quebec…where there are lots of French speaking people and vin rouge and vin blanc

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  107. COME TO CANADA!!! CANAAADAAAAA! Um, in honour of the no longer favorable to you exchange rate, I’ll buy you the requisite souvenir maple syrup, eh?

    EH???

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  111. It’s just too damn bad I live up north, near the arctic circle…cuz you and me…a camera and some wine.

    Think of the fun.

    Think of the possibilities.

    My door is always open. Just bring mitts, cuz it’s kinda chilly up here.

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  113. What, Bossy?? You’re not stopping in New Zealand??? Tut.

    I can’t wait to see the blog post when you end up on Pioneer Woman’s ranch.

    And, have you had an invitation from dooce yet????

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  116. Oh what fun it is to ride across the country with Bossy!

    As Mrs. G. said, the Pacific NW is FULL of COOL EXCELLENT bloggers. Like her. And then I’m just up the road from Seattle.

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  117. Humph. So. Ignoring Europe. We have bloggers here too you know. Lots of us. We even have real beds and flush toilets and EVERYthing. Any time!

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  119. I’m guessing Bossy doesn’t go to Canada. Shucks.

    Besides. I’m mad at you. You met Ree in real life. Not fair. And I’m guessing Ree is going to invite you to her pad and stuff your face full of butter and BBQed calf nuts and use you as an excuse to cook things that once resided in shells. In the ocean.

    Hmph.

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  121. Well, I’ve checked out the competition and it’s obvious I don’t stand a chance. I don’t have a blog, and everyone has seniority over me because they have been commenting here since the beginning of time. I guess I’ll just have to up the ante: Bossy, if you come to my house I will do all your travel laundry and send you on your way fresh as a daisy. Hah! Beat that, all you witty, funny and probably good-looking bloggers and commenters! Also, Bossy, as I emailed you earlier, I think those of us who don’t make the cut should get a consolation prize from your basement.

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  125. Bossy, you are the best. Your movies alone are worth their weight in tips. Can’t wait to see your itinerary and meet your crew. I can only hope for a real life Bossy sighting someday.

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  126. Hey, wouldn’t it be cool if you could time it to be here when I’m giving birth?!

    (The delivery is completely lost over the internet, isn’t it? Haha, delivery. Get it?)

    Seriously though, nothing would thrill us more than a visit from Bossy. Well, possibly winning the lottery… but your visit would be a close second. I got my husband reading your blog now, and he doesn’t even read MINE. My son has NO CLUE who you are, but he says (in toddlerese) that you’re welcome to stay in our guest suite should you travels bring you to our fine neck of the woods.

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  127. Must warn you about Mean Laurie. She may well be e-mailing you soon, behind my back, to try to get you to come stay with her. DON’T FALL FOR IT. She’ll try to tempt you with olives and almonds and pistachios and Sierra Nevada beer, but don’t believe for a minute that Orland is a good place to visit. Sure, it’s just up the road from WILLOWS, but HAVE YOU SEEN MEAN LAURIE’S COUCH? Gawd. Lumpy just doesn’t begin. And she’s drinking right out of the bottle of Two-Buck Chuck as I write this, no lie. What a train wreck.

    No, don’t let Mean Laurie fool you into an Orland stop, no matter how glamorous it sounds. Save yourself. Run.

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  129. I’ve read through all of Bossy’s comments to date and it is obvious that you will have far better places to visit than here. But, if for some strange reason you happen to drive through on your way to southern CA, you are so welcome to stay here! Let me tempt you…

    We live on an air force base, surrounded by cotton fields in a small town in southwest OK. You would have your own room in our tiny base house. You would be awakened before light by large cargo planes as they take off for the day’s training, and then again at 7am when they blast reveille from the loud-speakers.

    If you come at the right time, we could enjoy the heat, the wind, the fine red dust, the crickets, and the spiders that make the summers here such a joy. It’s all easier to deal with though, if you have one (or more) of my AWESOME margaritas and some of my AMAZING guacamole. Then we could go bowling for CHEAP at the alley on base. If we go on a Wednesday night there will be music. And a light show. (God, now I’m depressed. Take me with you?)

    Have fun! Can’t wait to read about your adventures.

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  130. Wait a minute… I can’t serve Bossy two-buck chuck? This is gonna get expensive if I have to get the high-end stuff, like Boone’s Farm.

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  132. Yeah, I live in England, but part of me wants to be involved just because you used Basement Jaxx in the video and I was dancing. A bit. Anyway, good luck! I might steal your idea!

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  133. Damn I am so not FIRST! Let me just say to you that I make awesome margaritas, I can cook, I can bake, I make chocolate covered pretzels. I live less than a mile from the mall, I live in Central Florida. Pool, beach, sun and fun anyone???

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  134. As one of your secret stalkers (not so secret now, eh?), I second coming to Columbus, OH. We can show you lots of good food and drink. Hell, we can put you on the Santa Maria if you want. (Seriously, there’s a model of the Santa Maria boat on the river.) Bossy discovers the New World?

    As for funding, this is just screaming for sponsors. Think of all the web businesses out there that could get noticed with sponsorship on Bossy’s Excellent Road Trip.

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  135. You can come by here, if you want to, though I am not at a centralized location, nor is there very much to do- I would even meet you at one of the less boring towns near here for coffee if you wanted. (You could always come just to say that you have met someone/ been in Alabama)

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  137. So Bossy, I already e-mailed you about the FIVE fabulous bars within TWO blocks of my house. But those were just the full-fledged-stand-alone bars. I left out all the restaurants with bars like the French place across the street that has an outdoor deck WITH A BAR and plays jazz and blues a LOT. So when you’re tired and broke from driving ALL THE WAY to Florida, you can hang out on my spacious front porch, drink cheap wine by the bottle and feed your soul with some sweet, sweet music.

    And despite all the boozy goodness nearby, my neighborhood is surprisingly wholesome. In case you were wondering.

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  138. Holy crap, Bossy… I checked this yesterday and saw 20-some responses. Now you’re in the hundreds. You’re going to need more than a summer… more than a year…

    If you’re in the Chicago area, you’re always welcome. I’ve got a sofa AND a large dog. You’ll feel right at home. 🙂

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  139. Okay, I know TECHNICALLY Montreal is not part of the continental U.S.A. BUT we’re so close (both geographically and figuratively) that we might as well be one and the same. And if you come to Montreal, it’s like being in Europe without the hassle of flying there.

    If you are undecided, then let me just say:

    Hot, fresh bagels baked in a wood-burning oven

    Hot, fresh chocolate croissants

    Some of the finest dining on the continent

    Jazz Festival

    Comedy Festival

    Fireworks Competition

    Did I mention the chocolate croissants?

    And if you want a more Canadian Wilderness type experience, we can head up to the cottage (about an hour’s drive north) and swim with the loons at our lake cottage. And by loons, I mean the birds, not the neighbours, although…

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  140. Bossy:

    I think this will be the 2nd vote for you to come to VEGAS during your trip!

    My boss just re-gifted to me, a $125 bottle of REALLY good wine . . . that would be the perfect opportunity to uncork it! Come and stay with us in VEGAS!

    Your email link did NOT work for me either…I’ll try it the old fashioned way and just copy and paste into my email.

    You’re the best, Bossy!

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  144. Okay, you got TWO votes from Hawaii–and you know that represents only a tiny fraction of Bossy acolytes out here in the middle of the Pacific. Y’all come!

    (Shout-out to KarinGal–hey, sistah, how you stay?!!–and welcome to the islands; I checked out your great blog and see you’re a fairly recent transplant! I’m a blogless writer in Wahiawa; my woefully unmaintained website is at wrightforyou.com.)

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  145. I can’t contribute to the tip jar right now, but I have a suggestion. What if everyone you come to visit agrees to fill your tank before you leave them? If they don’t, you’ll stay indefinitely, eating their food and using their washer and dryer. I’d fill your tank before you left. And you know that everyone’s going to feed you. Shoot, most of us will put you on the road with sandwiches and snacks. How expensive could this be?

    I’m in Tulsa, so stop here on the way to or from Ree’s. 🙂

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  146. I have access to the internet after two weeks without and you’ve gone and written stuff without me here to read it! Bad form bossy!

    Also: I’m glat the lip graft went well

    And: New Zealand has some mighty fine couches – but then it wouldn’t be a road trip. Unless by car you meant plane and by road you meant open air…

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  148. I want Bossy, too. I’ll even clean all the cr@, ummm, stuff off of the guest room bed. I’ll feed you Fizzy Food and take you for the best and greasiest enchiladas in San Antonio. We can go see the bats (that would be millions) leave the bat cave at sunset, just down the road from the Snake Farm and Wonder Cave. Too bad the swimming pig is gone. Convinced?

    Why do I think Bossy might be too smart to come to Texas in the summer? But you are soooo invited. Email on the way. And if you only dip into the state, just tell me where and when.

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  149. I already e-mailed, but just had to leave a public plea to come visit the New England Mamas (and the New England mamas)! We neeeeeeeeeeed Bossy!

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  150. You should make the trip for July and then drive your way to San Francisco for Blogher. I live smack in the middle of the country. And have a pull-out sofa. And a big dog. And many adult beverages. You are welcome to crash here.

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  153. Oh! Oh! Oh! Me! Me! *raises hand REALLY high*

    I would love to meet bossy and be part of the her excellent road trip. Please???

    AND If you come anywhere within a day’s drive for me (I live in SLC, Utah), I can provide a hotel for you. No, that’s not a joke, and it’s not a promise I can’t keep. I really can do it! And, I am willing to. You have to sleep on this trip sometime, don’t you? Why not stay in a beautiful five star resort. (((I knew that dang time share program we are paying so much friggin money for would come in handy some day)))

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  155. Hey Bossy,

    Glancing at your map, I see you are definitely in need of a stopover in Dallas!
    Plenty of space here…bring the dog, bring a friend.
    And if we’re not finished with this rackin’ frackin’ project by then, I can even offer you the odd job while you’re in town. Win win.

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  156. Dear Bossy, Meriden Connecticut here..lol..I have a couch with your name on it should you decide to come this way! We have Castle Craig that I can take you to to get some great pictures, We also have the Oldest Longest running amusment park Lake Compounce, Bristol, CT…and We have a carousel museum too! and lots of other things!
    And I can cook so you wont stave! lol

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  157. Stop by OK. I have a couch and a six month old and a toddler. How much fun can you ask for. Better yet, we have LOTS if wind. I would love to meet you if you come this way.

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  158. Dearest Bossy,

    You have many blogging admirers here in St.Louis. Sugared Harpy (Melissa) and I are waving our hands in the air saying, “COME VISIT US! COME VISIT US!” I have a guest bedroom that is entirely too pink but it has a queen size bed. If you stay with us, and you bunk in “pink room” you might find yourself in bed with another man — one that’s 5 and likes to kick/talk in his sleep. Oh wait. That’s not very tempting is it?

    Ok well, you still can have the room but did I mention WE HAVE LOTS OF LIQUOR AT OUR HOUSE. Ok if that’s not enough, if you stay at Melissa’s house I will buy you dinner/drinks or breakfast/drinks or whatever. Or will throw a party for St. Louis bloggers in your honor. If your son is with you I will even invite some super cute neighborhood girls who are his age to come over and flirt with him.

    There. How can that NOT sound tempting?

    So, St. Louis. Think St. Louis. If you do decide to head our way, let me know. Will plan our family vacation around your time in “the lou.”

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  159. If Minneapolis makes the map Be sure to put me on your list. Aside from the awesomely amazing tour of Electric Water World you will receive… I could use a good excuse to remember what is so great about my town. You are definately welcome here for some entertainment and a little help along the way. As for the couch… Thats where my husband sleeps, I do know of an awesome youth hostil in town across the street from the Minneapolis Institute of Arts. Life is amazing during the Summer in Minneapolis… Winter however only breeds punk rock bands in basements… which suits me just fine.

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  160. I see Salt Lake City is already on your Google map, and that’s where I live – my Couch is yours for the taking if you need another place to crash while you’re here. Yaknow, in case you can’t get no Dooce love.

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  162. Aren’t you, like, down the street from me? So you wouldn’t need to crash, but I could provide a cup of coffee and a tasty snack to help send you on your way!

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  164. Another one of the New England Mamas (and Mrs. Chicky’s neighbor fer Chrissake!) chiming in to say you must visit us. Jaysus H McLovin; you must.

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  166. You haven’t lived until you’ve been to Cheeseland – Wisconsin, that is. I’ve got cheese and beer and live on a 10 acre organic vegetable & flower farm that can always use another pair of hands! Oh yeah, we also live about 40 minutes from Minneapolis – there’s always ways to get in trouble over there!

    We might even have an actual bed for you to sleep in if you come after my kid leaves for college!

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  168. holy shitballs. you have unleashed the motherload.

    good luck with this.

    does the atl peg mean you are coming to see me? don’t you dare go see ‘the joys’ and not come swing by the zen den. mi casa es su casa.

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  169. Sadly, I don’t have a very comfy couch to offer, but if you end up in Vancouver (or even Bellingham!) I’ll be sure to make it out.

    MD won’t give you gas money, but can support drinking!

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  172. Bossy needs to come to VDog’s Casa de Cracker.

    Why?

    One slobbery, large, sweet CrackerDog.

    One awesome guest bedroom with two twin beds and duvet comforters. It is quiet and dark in there and the beds are super comfy. We seriously have to kick people out.

    One guest bathroom across the hall. With massage shower head. Heh.

    VDog makes mean margaritas, mojitos, cosmos, you name it.

    VDog belongs to a wine club. Wine takes up residence at Casa de Cracker.

    VDog ACTUALLY lives an hour from SF, if you are driving 5 miles an hour in traffic, unlike No_Watch_Me Christine, who only lives an hour from SF if you are driving 90 miles an hour and there is no traffic.
    (Actual Berkeley – SF driving time? Usually ~ 30 minutes. But there’s always BART!)

    VDog is an awesome cook.

    VDog lives 3 minutes from Chez Panisse, Cheeseboard Pizza Collective, the original Peet’s Coffee location, and so much more.

    VDog lives 5 minutes from other cool bloggers like SuperHero Andrea and RookieMom Whitney.

    Need I say more???

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  174. A tent in the backyard?

    Oh hell no. You’re sleeping with me and PigHunter. In the middle. And you will LOVE IT.

    And after a good nights sleep sandwiched between the gassiest people you’ll ever meet in your entire life, we’re going TO DISNEYLAND!

    Woot!

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  175. Bossy,

    No Booze here (Quaker) so that probably puts me out of the staying over part but if you’re in or around the NYC area,would Love to meet up! I know if your son is living here, you will likely stop over so let me know.

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  176. US? Shmoo Mess.

    Here in Vancouver we have legal pot, legal hookers and FREE HEALTH care.

    And a couch. And bad tv. And hockey.

    Get your passport ready.

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  183. This is amazing! I feel like I’m signing up way late into the game, but Chicago is a terrific place to visit, and we got an awesome blog community to hang out with. Stop on by!

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  184. This is amazing! I feel like I’m signing up way late into the game, but Chicago is a terrific place to visit, and we got an awesome blog community to hang out with. Stop on by!

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  187. Bossy, not only do I have a couch — (four of them IN FACT) but I also have FOUR, count them, FOUR outrageously funny boys. You can have the third floor all to yourself… and here’s the thing. I am living in STEPFORD!! I kid you not — Stepford Bliss. Of course, I did not undergo the surgery, so my brain is still intact…which makes it so much more fun to watch those women in stilettos walk their kids to school, with a Starbuck’s in one hand… you just have to see this for yourself.

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  189. I never realized how many other Michigan readers you have besides me! Come to my part of Michigan, and I’ll take you to the Michigan State University Dairy Barn, where you can watch cows being milked and then have double scoops of the best ice cream you have ever tasted in your life.

    Or, do a Midwest stop in Chicago/Indianapolis, and I’ll drive down with baskets of Mackinac Island Fudge!

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  190. santa cruz?

    we have sweet little guest cabin…. and mountains. and mountains of wine. and a winery.
    boardwalk?
    beach?

    what more could you want?

    a ride to blogher? ohfine, you’ve got that too.

    i am such a pushover.

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  191. You can come stay with me (in Columbia, MO), if you don’t mind riding in a gas-guzzling SUV with a “W” for President sticker on the rear window.

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  193. I’m pretty sure you won’t be making it down into the Florida peninsula. Nobody ever comes down here, least of all Izzy’s fave bands. (hey, talking in 3rd person is FUN!) but if for some reason you do, I’d love to take you up on that bowling match. Regretfully, Izzy’s sofa is also her bed right now as she tries to figure out how to get her light-sleeping 2 yr old out of her room.

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  194. Oh duh! I just remembered… My daughter has a bunkbed. If you do make it down this way, that top bunk is ALL YOURS, lady! I know..it’s such a tempting offer. Try not to pee yourself, k?

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