Yo, Council. I’m a few days from going off camping in the wilderness (sorta) with my delightful one and when I come back, there’s a decision to be made.
It’s past the point of fun experimentation, and now I need to know:
Yes or no to the beard?
So how ’bout it, council: Who’s got an opinion? Bossy’s friend Amy put your hand down.
Lesa says
July 23, 2010 at 4:46 amCould you just clone him? He’s darling both ways.
Nic says
July 23, 2010 at 5:56 amWith beard.
Audubon Ron says
July 23, 2010 at 6:05 amWhatever Mom wants.
Pam says
July 23, 2010 at 6:08 amOoooh, tricky. Manly or boyish? Ummm – you’ve got the rest of your life to be a man. Go with youth!
runnergirl says
July 23, 2010 at 7:03 amnot everyone looks good w/ a beard. Not everyone looks good w/o a beard. You, however, look good w/ both options. If the hair is itchy, then shave. If you like the fact that you don’t have to shave keep the beard. I like the beard look, just don’t go ZZ top on us.
Jean says
July 23, 2010 at 7:06 amYou’re handsome either way, of course. But, I’ve never met a man who I thought looked better with a beard than without (including my husband who I can only hope shaves soon).
Kelly says
July 23, 2010 at 7:11 amBeard… though I may be biased
Autumn says
July 23, 2010 at 7:20 amWithout.
Zendra says
July 23, 2010 at 7:32 amWithout –
Hunter says
July 23, 2010 at 7:34 amI won’t opine on whether you look better one way or ‘tother. But as someone who wears one, I’d say, play with it. Grow it in more. Then shave the cheeks for a circle beard. Then shave it off. Then grow it back. Trim it differently. Have fun with it and you’ll find friends who see it all different ways will start giving their opinions.
Sewmouse says
July 23, 2010 at 7:54 amLose the face fur. You’re much more attractive without it.
becky says
July 23, 2010 at 7:57 amIt’s a heat wave…..
When I pass roadkill these days I have to wonder if it was really heatstroke that got um’. See all that hair (fur) they have?
elizabeth says
July 23, 2010 at 7:57 amthe correct answer is whatever The Delightful One likes.
I think the beard is a good look for you.
Kizz says
July 23, 2010 at 8:00 amI don’t often go this way but I’m going to go with beard on this one. I don’t think I’d be doing that if it were much thicker, though. The picture has it just a little scruffy and fun.
Catch the Kids says
July 23, 2010 at 8:08 amTo me, without is a classier look. But it’s your face…
Square Peg says
July 23, 2010 at 8:18 amIsn’t it ultimately up to The Delightful One? You look great either way.
Rebecca at Toothwhale says
July 23, 2010 at 8:21 amI agree with Elizabeth who said the correct answer is whatever The Delightful One likes. It’s her face that will touch yours.
chocolatechic says
July 23, 2010 at 8:21 amWithout…totally
Deb says
July 23, 2010 at 8:28 amKeep it.
Heather says
July 23, 2010 at 8:31 amHow about you try half way. Let’s see him with a scruffy goatee…
Carrie says
July 23, 2010 at 8:36 amI vote without! What do Mom and The Delightful One have to say about it?
M says
July 23, 2010 at 8:37 amWith…
and longer hair
rockle says
July 23, 2010 at 8:39 amYou know, I don’t really care either way. You’re lucky in that you can pull them both off. But can we all agree to JUST SAY TO to the Beiber haircut? (Not that you have one, I just want to take a pre-emptive strike against that abomination unto the Lord.)
Phillgal says
July 23, 2010 at 8:39 amDefinately keep it!!
lora says
July 23, 2010 at 8:39 amIt’s up to no one but you!
I like beards, to look at. I don’t love them up against my face if they aren’t soft. If you keep it, be sure to toss some hair conditioner on there while you are in the shower.
I think you look great with a beard. You are young enough that no one will think you are trying to hide your age, and old enough that no one will think you are trying to, well, hide your age.
Having seen many pictures of your dad and knowing your mom, I am quite certain that this youthful look isn’t fading anytime soon, so no worries about wasting that babyface.
You can always take your beard off if you hate it.
I say grow it and decide whether to keep it later.
choosy says
July 23, 2010 at 8:40 amwell according to the pics – the beard gets you a very nice looking guy and without gets you the delightful one – you do the math. 😉
I think you look good both ways but definitely older with the scruff…are you trying to look older?
Darla78 says
July 23, 2010 at 8:41 amWith beard ,,,
WebSavvyMom says
July 23, 2010 at 8:45 am–>You’re cute either way but til you *have* to shave everyday, leave the whiskers.
GreatAunt says
July 23, 2010 at 8:56 amI rather like it.
JaneK says
July 23, 2010 at 8:58 ami think that everyone agrees that you look very handsome both ways…….and I am with them on that. However, without shows off the enitre handsome features of your face, smile, etc and the beard hides a little of it…….so without is my vote. But if I were 20 years younger and single, I’d flirt with you either way 🙂
Golden says
July 23, 2010 at 8:59 amwithout. He has plenty of time to have a beard. Save it for the older, more distinguished years. Cherish the youthful, dashing, healthy skinned years. Beards make me wonder what you’re hiding under there. He has nothing to hide, handsome guy that is he is!
Yellaphant says
July 23, 2010 at 9:03 amThere are very few people in the world who love beards as much as I do. But his face is just so garsh darn cute that it’s a shame to hide it. No beard!
Arli says
July 23, 2010 at 9:06 amThe Delightful One holds all the voting stock.
GrandeMocha says
July 23, 2010 at 9:07 amI like beards and I like clean shaven, I don’t like the scruff in between, especially up close & personal. No beard!
Melissa says
July 23, 2010 at 9:08 amBeard with the longer hair!
teri says
July 23, 2010 at 9:15 amthe beard makes him look more grown up, without he looks like a “baby faced boy”. Either way, though, he’s a cutey. Some guys I know grow beards in the winter to keep their face warm.
Ambry says
July 23, 2010 at 9:20 amThe longer, playful haircut looks great without a beard. But the shorter cut with a little scruff is handsome too! Let the Delightful One pick!
Carrie says
July 23, 2010 at 9:21 amI’d go with whatever choice The Delightful One makes!
Bush Babe (of Granite Glen) says
July 23, 2010 at 9:24 amCan wear both… gorgeous and a touch sweet without, a little more growed-up with, but has he tried a goatee yet? Enjoy experimenting, Bossy’s Son!
🙂
BB
K says
July 23, 2010 at 9:25 amI have a slight preference for without. But, I don’t hold the cards here…. the important vote comes from the charming gal whose face rubs against it.
Delightful one, what do you say?
Sara Plays House says
July 23, 2010 at 9:25 amWhile he’s equally precious both ways, I tend to think beards are best served in winter. Since I live in a tropical jungle (The State Of Georgia), the thought of hair on one’s face makes me sweat.
Theresa says
July 23, 2010 at 9:25 amwithout
Courtney says
July 23, 2010 at 9:30 amWith beard. Esp. for camping!
Sandy_Shoes says
July 23, 2010 at 9:30 amWithout.
Kay says
July 23, 2010 at 9:43 amYou look totally handsome both ways. Probably should go with what the “delightful one” likes best!
Maggie says
July 23, 2010 at 9:44 amKeep it through the summer.
Dara says
July 23, 2010 at 9:44 amI like the beard.
Grammar Snob says
July 23, 2010 at 9:48 amWith so long as it’s not too itchy, too hot, or too hard to keep trimmed. ZZ Top is not a good look, even for Brad Pitt.
Shannon says
July 23, 2010 at 9:48 amI’m kind of a fan of the beard! But keep it nice and short and well-trimmed please! No bushman shaggy things going on, ok?
Lizzy says
July 23, 2010 at 9:49 amI’m incapable of making a decision when both options are good. My answer then, is “yes”.
Lizzy says
July 23, 2010 at 9:51 amp.s. I agree with #23 about the no Justin Bieber cut. He looks like he got a swirly in his elementary school restroom.
bossy's friend amy says
July 23, 2010 at 9:57 ami know you said to put my hand down – but you know i can’t – so, shave the beard – keep the face cute as can be.
sherry says
July 23, 2010 at 9:58 amSmooth like a baby, hon.
bdaiss says
July 23, 2010 at 10:04 amClean for the summer (it’s hot!), beard for the winter (to keep your chin warm). Best of both worlds!
Angi says
July 23, 2010 at 10:05 amYes beard…it’s good.
Debbie says
July 23, 2010 at 10:08 amWhat the the delightful one think?
zidia says
July 23, 2010 at 10:34 amI’m the wrong one to ask—-I’ve had mine for 42 years!!!
but————-without,for the time being.
Jenn M says
July 23, 2010 at 10:35 amWithout. It looks kind of scraggly. But you should go with whatever the delightful one wants.
Half Assed Kitchen says
July 23, 2010 at 10:37 amHe looks nice either way. But the beard is kind of hip. Most importantly, what does The Delightful One think?
jane says
July 23, 2010 at 10:37 amReally such a decision should always be made in consultation with the Delightful One.
Linda Stewart says
July 23, 2010 at 10:39 amWith beard provided that it never gets past where it is in the photo above. Anything more and it’s going to look ragged.
Tamara says
July 23, 2010 at 10:45 amI say, heck you’re in college- no better time to rock the scruffy look!! Work it!
joeinvegas says
July 23, 2010 at 10:47 amHe’s cute either way. I say let the girlfriend decide (his, not yours)
km says
July 23, 2010 at 11:00 amnot the council’s right to say. Bossy’s son has body autonomy.
jeri says
July 23, 2010 at 11:07 ambeard
Stacey Ball says
July 23, 2010 at 11:48 amBeard. Super adorable!!
TanyaK says
July 23, 2010 at 11:50 amYes beard, trimmed nicely, of course!
AnnP says
July 23, 2010 at 11:51 amNo beard.
Jami says
July 23, 2010 at 11:56 amKeep it while camping. Afterwards, it should be up to the person who will be in contact with your face the most. That’s outside contact, btw. Personally, I favor clean-shaven but it’s not my face. It’s yours … and Delightful One’s. And maybe a little bit Bossy’s.
Kirsten says
July 23, 2010 at 12:04 pmBeard! Unless vetoed by delightful one – her opinion is infinitely more important….
kelly says
July 23, 2010 at 12:06 pmnow i am a biased opinion– I. LOVE. BEARDS.
AND while i was reading the last post i was thinking “hey bossy’s son is looking good with that beard!”
so keep it
La Suzette says
July 23, 2010 at 12:07 pmBossy’s Son, you are a gorgeous hunk o’ man with/without the beard. I also side with “whatever Miss Delightful” prefers! (and you, too, of course!)
Bellacantare says
July 23, 2010 at 12:18 pmI like the scruf better. Although I would grow it out much more and if you’re starting to go on job interviews, I’d suggest going clean-cut. Also, the girlfriend should have the option to request he shave should it start getting too itchy.
Dharmamama says
July 23, 2010 at 12:32 pmPrefer the beard. Very nice either way.
pam says
July 23, 2010 at 12:32 pmI am very pro beard, on you.
kathleen says
July 23, 2010 at 12:50 pmI happen to love beards. Everytime my husband says he wants to shave and see his face, I threaten divorce. BUT, Bossy Boy is young-wait a little longer for a keeper beard.Just like a woman changing styles with age, men like the new beard look. Totally handsome either way!
Kristi says
July 23, 2010 at 12:53 pmIs he the same age in the photos? If so, then I say yes to the beard. If not, I will need more photos for my conclusion.
Mel says
July 23, 2010 at 1:13 pmHe acquits himself reasonably well with the beard, but I’m still firmly in the without camp.
andrea says
July 23, 2010 at 1:23 pmI’m with commenter #13 (Elizabeth)…whatever your Delightful One likes the best. You look very handsome with and without. (My son is your age). When you have youth and good looks on your side, it really doens’t matter what’s on your face, as long as it’s kept clean 😉
Victoria says
July 23, 2010 at 1:47 pmI’m on the no beard side, but what does the Delightful One say?
Cindy says
July 23, 2010 at 1:57 pmI’m not a facial hair sort of person — and tend to think only people with something to cover up look better with a beard. You, Bossy’s son have nothing needing cover… but I would vote with whatever the Delightful One wants.
Mary says
July 23, 2010 at 2:09 pmWith!
Jen says
July 23, 2010 at 2:26 pmWhatever his girlfriend prefers 😀
jp says
July 23, 2010 at 2:59 pmlooks older w/ beard, but way more cuter without!
Claire in AZ says
July 23, 2010 at 3:25 pmI vote to nix the beard!
Rox says
July 23, 2010 at 3:33 pmNo beard
Brava97 says
July 23, 2010 at 3:47 pmThe beard makes you look older. Because the Delightful One is younger than you, I don’t think that’s a good thing. I mean, *we* know you’re not a cradle-robbing pervert but the general public? They might not. So shave until the Delightful One is of legal age.
Bryan says
July 23, 2010 at 3:57 pmBear. Neatly trimmed, of course.
Gillian says
July 23, 2010 at 4:01 pmA thousand times yes.
Stefanie says
July 23, 2010 at 4:04 pmDelightful gets final vote, obviously, but my vote is a loud WITHOUT!!!
helenel says
July 23, 2010 at 4:13 pmI love that instead of “The Delightful One” you say “my delightful one”.
dobes says
July 23, 2010 at 4:17 pmDon’t like beards generally, but love it on you.
Marjorie of Connecticut says
July 23, 2010 at 5:41 pmNo. He has plenty of time in his life to look older than he really is (and distinguished). Now is the time to look cute.
The Domestic Goddess says
July 23, 2010 at 6:25 pmWhile you are adorable without it, you do look older and more mature with the beard.
Joie says
July 23, 2010 at 6:47 pmYou look great either way but I say without. You have such great bone structure on your face so don’t hide it.
Meg at the Members Lounge says
July 23, 2010 at 6:52 pmTwo letter Friday. w/o.
Smalltown Mom says
July 23, 2010 at 7:19 pmYou’re a cutie either way, but your Delightful One should have the final say…since she’s the one that’s kissing you.
dgm says
July 23, 2010 at 7:23 pmFirst of all, if you had put up a picture of yourself with facial hair and The Delightful One asking if you should “keep the beard,” I’d say yes, keep her! 🙂
But seriously folks, I’m partial to scruff, but not a full beard, on a young man of your age. I agree with those who recommend growing the hair out a little, too, if you keep the facial hair.
Deborah says
July 23, 2010 at 7:39 pmI think the Delightful One should decide…
and BTW does she have college plans?
Doug says
July 23, 2010 at 7:43 pmNo.
I’m an owner of one the same age. He has one too.
No.
Kathy says
July 23, 2010 at 7:43 pmNo beard . . . love the clean shaven look.
ruth says
July 23, 2010 at 7:52 pmBeard.. you will have plenty of time when you become corporate america to be hairless.
Rochelle says
July 23, 2010 at 8:17 pmBeard for camping and then do away with the damn thing when you’re done. Beards are gross!
Kathy says
July 23, 2010 at 9:58 pmHe looks cool with the beard.
Susan says
July 23, 2010 at 11:21 pmMmmmmm, scruffy.
bossy's friend martha's sister says
July 23, 2010 at 11:31 pmbeard… so prof like…. but it is hot and I am practical so shave it now and enjoy the heat till the fall and grow it during 1st semester! Study hard! Peace
Maria says
July 23, 2010 at 11:34 pmWithout.
Lynn says
July 23, 2010 at 11:56 pmAt your age it really doesn’t matter because you are young and handsome…..
L says
July 24, 2010 at 12:30 amShave it off as fast as you can. It hides your handsome face.
Sheryl W says
July 24, 2010 at 12:37 amWithout…
Eliza says
July 24, 2010 at 1:29 amDude, shave it.
Amber Lee says
July 24, 2010 at 2:19 amBeard!
ktgrl says
July 24, 2010 at 2:52 ami don’t really think that can be considered a “full on” beard….. but definitely NO BEARD! the only fuzz i think is cool is a “delightful” lady “bush”…….. purrrrrrrrrrr.
Tuli says
July 24, 2010 at 9:04 amI’m a fan of the beard…as long as it’s kept neat and tidy (like in the photo above). If you decide to keep it, for Gah’s sake, DO NOT let it get long and woolly looking, like some of the youngsters wear them. They look awful and unkempt and make an un-bearded person look away in embarrassment.
Jenn says
July 24, 2010 at 10:14 amWith if he grows out the hair a bit. Without if he keeps the hair short. Short hair and a beard makes him look a little amish like.
meredith says
July 24, 2010 at 10:48 amthe scruff is adorable. you’re lucky to be from such attractive genes.
Shannon Marie says
July 24, 2010 at 11:12 amBeard! Especially for camping 🙂
Lisa says
July 24, 2010 at 11:18 amno beard! Why cover up that beautiful face?
Diane says
July 24, 2010 at 12:01 pmYes, yes, yes to the beard. However, I am a beard woman. He looks quite grown up with the beard and boyish (in a good way) without the beard. Adorable either way though! You make very attractive children. 🙂
Kimi says
July 24, 2010 at 12:09 pmBeard! Meow……
Rachel D. says
July 24, 2010 at 12:47 pmBoth looks are Good…
But I would stay with the beard, for now….
josh says
July 24, 2010 at 1:49 pmTo quote Ke$ha, “I like his beard.”
Mrs. Yollis says
July 24, 2010 at 2:47 pmMy first response: You like the beard? Then keep it. It’s your face.
Since you asked: I like without. 🙂
Ami says
July 24, 2010 at 4:14 pmBeard. Hairy faces make men look more manly.
It’s just one of those things that men can do that women can’t — grow facial hair.
Although, truthfully, I think the Delightful One should have the heaviest vote here (outside of you, of course).
Carroll says
July 24, 2010 at 4:51 pmI wasn’t gonna say anything, but since you asked…lose it, Stud. You’re such a total cutie without the fur — just makes you look like you’re trying too hard.
(And this from a woman who *begged* her husband to grow a beard. I usually love ’em!)
That said, i do agree that your Beloved should have the strongest vote. Since there’s voting, and all 🙂
Have a great time camping with the fam. You guys rock, whatever you want to look like.
Steve C says
July 24, 2010 at 5:03 pmKeep the beard, just go for a shorter length. Stubble is in.
krg says
July 24, 2010 at 5:07 pmat this point it appears that the definitive votes are 45 pro and 43 con. please tdo, chime in.
linda dorris says
July 24, 2010 at 5:08 pmBeard. Definitely beard.
Bridget says
July 24, 2010 at 5:34 pmOh man that’s a tough one – he’s cute both ways! I guess whatever makes him happy!
MidLifeMama says
July 24, 2010 at 6:35 pmNo beard. I don’t mind a goatee if it looks good, but full beards are just, hairy.
Baby Favorite says
July 24, 2010 at 7:02 pmI normally despise beards, but you look especially adorable with one! (Said in a completely non-cougar, motherly way, of course.)
Birdbrain says
July 24, 2010 at 7:15 pmPlenty of time to look older and scholarly, go for boyish good looks!
Cage Free Family says
July 24, 2010 at 7:18 pmDefinitely keep the beard.
Lori in MN says
July 24, 2010 at 7:32 pmI just want to know if we’ll be hearing from The Delightful One! Meanwhile, I like beards, but you are adorable.
BossysMom says
July 24, 2010 at 8:05 pmMy gosh…you people are out there thinking about beards and not competing for the great mattress?
But me, I’m not the one to ask since I lived with 57 for many years. On him gorgeous, but you don’t need a beard yet.
And if you do keep it, grow your hair (the Amish comment).
Or better yet, do exactly what makes you happy.
Chesapeake Bay Woman says
July 24, 2010 at 8:52 pmWhy not have it both ways and shave it into a goatee? I think it would look marvelous.
Janene Murphy says
July 25, 2010 at 12:16 amI go with clean shaven.
Danita says
July 25, 2010 at 9:36 amWay hotter without. I am not a cougar, I promise.
The Know it All says
July 25, 2010 at 9:42 amNo beard, if you’re asking. I’m a fan of beards, but…Your face is your piece of art and the frame is your hair (in your case beard…) Your “art” is quite attractive, so no need for a fancy frame…
APeetsMom says
July 26, 2010 at 1:24 pmWhile generally I am NOT a fan of beards…I think it looks good on you! So go beard!
Bri says
July 26, 2010 at 2:46 pmWhatever The Delightful One wants.
Reeb says
July 26, 2010 at 5:05 pmI can’t believe you asked the Council about this. But you did score over 140 comments from it! What was the result?
My husband has shaved one day in our 28 years of marriage; that was for a joke/prank on a friend. I told him to grow it back the very next day.
Well Read The Boss of You says
July 28, 2010 at 11:42 amno.
just.
no.
Niki in Baltimore says
July 29, 2010 at 6:54 pmNo.
God, no.
Please, no.
Did i mention, no?
Robin says
July 30, 2010 at 12:06 pmShave! You are too handsome for coverage.
K says
July 30, 2010 at 4:36 pmKeep it.. as long as it’s the same as in the picture! It’s just enough scruff to be handsome without being ‘boy have you showered lately?’.